Parents of LGBTQ+Youth
Faith and Spirituality:
Balancing Faith and Unconditional Love
​Navigating faith and spirituality as a parent of an LGBTQ+ child can be both a journey of growth and a test of resilience. For parents from conservative religious backgrounds, the process of acceptance can feel like an internal conflict between deeply held beliefs and the desire to support and affirm their child. On the other hand, parents from affirming congregations may find it easier to embrace their child’s identity with love and understanding.
If you’re experiencing challenges, here are some insights and actionable steps to help:
Reflect on Core Values
Engage in Open Dialogue
Practice Patience
Focus on the foundational principles of your faith—love, compassion, and kindness. Consider how these values can guide your journey to support your child while honoring your beliefs
Talk with affirming religious leaders, counselors, or members of inclusive faith communities. Hearing their experiences can provide clarity and reduce feelings of isolation.
Acceptance is a journey. Allow yourself time to process emotions and challenge preconceived notions. Be patient with yourself and your family as you navigate this path.
Educate yourself about LGBTQ+ experiences and identities. Books, documentaries, and personal stories can provide perspective and understanding, helping to bridge the gap between faith and acceptance.
Organizations like PFLAG, The Reformation Project, and Beloved Arise offer valuable guidance on reconciling faith with supporting LGBTQ+ children. Explore their materials to gain insights and practical tools.
Join support groups of parents who have faced similar struggles. Connecting with others who understand your journey can offer reassurance and strategies for growth.
"Trust your child, and just love them."
In this short but powerful video (under 2 minutes), Donna shares her journey of supporting her son Angel as he came out as gay in their conservative Utah community. Her message of unconditional love is a powerful reminder of the impact parental support has on LGBTQ+ youth.
As parents, we don’t always have the answers—but love can guide the way. Rosa once struggled with accepting her daughter, but her journey led her to a deeper understanding and a stronger bond with her. If you’re navigating similar feelings, you’re not alone. Click below to watch Rosas's story of transformation, hope, and unconditional love.
"My husband and I were both brought up Catholic, both in the Catholic Church. So old-school Catholicism is very, you know. So, that was something in my faith I had to reflect on. Honestly, I think my faith has gotten stronger. I am a lot stronger than I thought I was... She’s, my kid!"
Mother 17 year old LGBTQ youth